... and life does not always go on

The worst things that can happen to a relationship are misunderstandings/ego/anger/mistrust. Or may be the worst happens AFTER this--when further ego doesn't let anyone take the initiative to fix the issues. Ironically, all it requires is a small gesture of talking that first step--just a phone call, or a sorry, giving personal space, etc.

No matter how much we've opined about cherishing this relationship throughout the life, but when time comes to bent down for its sake, we rarely do. Its not that the opinions/thoughts/wishes were fake, we would've meant it genuinely, willing to beg-borrow-steal for the sake of the relationship, but when it comes to bending back we develop so much inertia in our minds that we let our treasured people go away, without addressing the mis-happenings.

Either people forsake the relationship or last minute desperate attempts to revive it makes love to forsake the relationship. We become too conceited or take our loved ones so much for granted, as to not be able to realize what's going wrong, when it goes wrong. And later it might come to being just a mended survival not a lovable existence.

Alas! just for those few (un)said words, that missed moment, that common-sense that became so uncommon, that presence of mind which never prevailed, that phone call which never came, that explanation which was never given on time, that sensibility which didn't make sense during the storm.... And it raged on!

Hazar rahein mud ke dekhin
Kahin se koi sada na aayi
Badi wafa se nibhayi tumne
Hamari thodi si bewafai

Jahan se tum mod mud gaye the
Ye mod ab hi wahin pade hain
Hum apne pairon mein jaane kitne
Bhanwar lapete hue khade hain

Badi wafa se nibhayi tumne
Hamari thodi si bewafai

Kahin kisi roz yun bhi hota
Hamari haalat tumhari hoti
Jo raat humein guzari marr ke
Vo raat tumne guzari hoti

Badi wafa se nibhayi tumne
Hamari thodi si bewafai

Tumhe ye zid thi ke hum bulate
Humein ye ummid vo pukarein
Hai naam hoton pe ab bhi lekin
Aawaz mein pad gayi dararein

Hazar rahein mud ke dekhim
Kahin se koi sada na aayi
Badi wafa se nibhayi tumne
Hamari thodi si bewafai.